Motivate Social from your inner self improvement
15 Sep
The urge for sex is the most powerful of all human desires. This desire can be so great that it brings out a persons keenness of imagination, persistence, will power, and creativity in an instant. Some people are even willing to trade their life’s worth and reputation just to go for it. Sex is a motivation. And when it is used properly, it can bring you riches you never imagined.
Transmutation literally means to change or to transfer an element or energy from one into another. Sex transmutation is the process of taking the mind away from the ideas of physical expression and into thoughts of entirely different nature.
You can harness your sexual desires and express them into something more productive – something that can gain you wealth and satisfaction. Direct your sex desire towards literature, music, and the arts. See how much you can thrive in that field for as long as you are motivated.
A lot of people have done it. And you can do it too. Master the ability to transmute sex desire into making you filthy rich. All you need is the right amount of will power. Everybody has the innate need to express themselves in a sexual way. That’s crude human nature. But if you are prepared to provide the right outlet for it other than physical, then energy is not wasted at all. Instead, it is transformed into insurmountable riches.
If you fail to express your sexual desire in a different channel, it will just be put across physically or becomes negative energy. And if relayed physically, it won’t acquire any pertinent value at all. But if it is conveyed creatively and imaginatively, then you have just lifted your status to a level higher than the human tendency. You have become a genius in your own worth.
The people who became rich in the arts, architecture, and any industry for that matter have all been motivated by the image of a woman or man and the desire for them sometime or another. Riches and fame suddenly became easy for them to achieve. Actually, it might just have been their reward for mastering the technique of controlling human sexual passion into avenues more prolific and far more abundant – like that particular field they have excelled on.
A sex desire is coupled with an emotion that is synonymous to an irresistible force and a creative ability. If the proper way to do it is carried on, this emotion can drive people into a passionate action for their craft. This is the very principle of sex transmutation repeatedly explained.
A sexual desire can stimulate the mind. It can bring the creativity out in a man or a women. It can make them do plentiful things and positive things for themselves and there craft – something that could take them to the level of supreme intelligence – the kind of intelligence that brings wealth, fame, and satisfaction.
The Power is within you.
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15 Sep
Introduction to SpeedLearning 100
1.This is an Initiation into the secrets of tripling your Speed Reading – and doubling your memory. The word initiate is from Latin, meaning to begin; taking an action to make things start.
Today you join an exclusive club, with 2 million others, including the White House staffs of four U.S. Presidents. These people have the Competitive Edge over their peers in the areas of knowledge and learning.
The primary benefit of Speedlearning 100 for both college and graduate-school students is Acing your courses and exams. In your career,SpeedLearners are placed on the Fast-Track for promotions because they are Masters of Learning and Knowledge, and have practical strategies for success.
2.There are three avenues to learning:
a) Trial-and-error
b) Observation of others
c) Lectures
Speedlearners are Auto-Didactic, meaning – self-taught. They do not expect the instructor to pour the knowledge directly into their right-ear. They are willing to make plenty of mistakes until they Get-It, and take personal responsibility for their own success. This is called Interactive-Learning.
Personal experience is your #1 system of learning; it requires using trial-and-error, and direct observation of the strategies of experts.
3.How did you learn to type on your word-processor, use the computer, surf the Internet, ride a bike – and drive-a-car? You had a definite purpose to learn these skills; you saw the personal benefits, and you were not phased by your frustration, mistakes, and feeling dumb-as-a-stick while learning.
That is called exercising your Will, having Grit, and activating your persistence and determination until you had the Aha! Moment of learning the new skill.
4. A successful career cannot be exclusively about money; meaning in your work is an absolute requirement for long-term personal satisfaction. Meaning provides you with happiness, effectiveness and fulfillment.
We think we work for the money and benefits – we require meaningful and specific purposes, reasons and self-esteem – to win the marbles in a career.
Money is a powerful motivator, in addition to a sense of accomplishment, recognition, and evidence of personal-growth. Discover what motivates you, and you will always lead the Fast-Track.
Endwords
Speedlearners are in the business of having Insights, the Aha-Moments. Would it help to read-and-remember three-books, articles and reports in the time others can hardly finish one? The greater your experience and access to knowledge, the more powerful your personal creativity in brainstorming and solving problems.
Make these two expressions your Target Affirmations:
a) If-you-Snooze-you-lose; so pay attention because this information is uncommon and unique.
b) Use-it-or-lose-it; because Speedlearning 100 is more than intellectual information passing through your eyes and into your mind; it is a psychomotor skill requiring Insights and learning new strategies.
Finally, we ask you to consider these words:
“Our task is not so much to see what no one has yet seen;
but to think what nobody has yet thought, about that which
everybody sees!”
Edwin Schrodinger, physicist
See ya,
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15 Sep
All Alone in Here
Several years ago I had a quiet but intense experience at the wedding of a close friend. I was early, and as I sat at my table I watched the other guests entering the room. One came in elated, dancing like a performer on stage. Another was withdrawn, inward, as if mulling over some sadness or pain. Some were eating, some talking, some laughing and some sitting quietly.
But what I saw – with an almost painful intensity – was that each one of us, no matter what we were doing or with whom we were doing it, was essentially in our own world. Not necessarily lonely, but alone, our thoughts, longings, our selves on some core level separate from everyone around us.
Once, many years ago, my four-year-old cousin was standing in the living room with her mother and grandmother when she suddenly burst out, “I’m all alone in here!” When her mother hastened to reassure her that they were right there with her in the room, she responded, “No, in here. I’m all alone in here.”
Every human being experiences this essential aloneness. Sometimes we’re not aware of it at all, and sometimes the awareness, like it was for my little cousin, is profound. But whatever the case, it’s always there.
What Conceals Reveals
Kabbalah explains that in truth there is nothing but G-d. Everything that exists, whether physical or spiritual, is simply a highly limited expression of its Creator, somewhat like each of your thoughts and actions is a little expression of you.
The infinite light of G-d, as its name implies, is overwhelming, filling every space. Left unmuted, this all-encompassing light would make it impossible for anything else to exist, just like a ray of light cannot exist as a separate entity within the body of the sun. So, in order to allow for Creation in all of its limitless details and forms, G-d had to conceal His own infinite light. This concealment, known as tzimtzum, is what enables us to be. And more, it allows us to experience ourselves as real, solid, and the center of our universe.
This ‘Big Lie” – this core illusion of aloneness and solidity – is what allows us to exist as separate and unique human beings. In its raw, unrectified state, it cuts us off from the truth. But ultimately we are destined to see through the walls, transcend the illusion, and fulfill our potential as uniquely magnificent expressions of the Divine.
The Sound of the Void
The illusion is powerful, but not total. If we were completely cut off from an awareness of what lies beyond, chances are we would be perfectly content. There would be no reason to question ourselves or our existence, no drive to continuously experience more.
But we are not cut off completely. A glimmer of the Infinite light from before Creation surrounds and permeates each person who walks this earth. This light is what gives us the profound sense that there is something else out there. Only the something doesn’t always feel like an actual something. It often feels like something missing – a void.
This void, this missing, hovers at the edge of our consciousness, threatening our comfortable sense of solidity and bringing with it an essential longing for…. well, for something. Something more.
This sensation of something missing is actually the glimmer of something that is there, but too vast and amazing to be perceived by our ordinary senses. But as physical beings in a physical world, we are not naturally inclined to relate to it in this esoteric way. In fact, the non-physical all too often makes us feel vulnerable and uncomfortable. So, instead of slowly allowing our eyes to adjust to this more subtle light, we avoid the experience altogether, or seek to fill the void with physical things.
The subtle awareness of the void pulls us relentlessly toward the next high, the next success, the more exciting relationship, the bigger, flashier toy. The feelings it triggers – like sadness, depression, anxiety or dissatisfaction – drive us to eat too much, drink too much, work too much, spend too much, need too much; in short, whatever it takes to avoid facing the threatening insubstantiality of it all.
But, as uncomfortable and threatening as it can feel, if you are willing to face the discomfort, to stop running and listen, you can begin to explore the secret of the void, to expand your ability to see and hear things that lie outside your normal range.
Like a beautiful dream whose impression lingers, like a song that stirs memories and feelings from long ago, like a perfume that lingers faintly in the air, the music of the void can stir forgotten memories and open your heart. It can speak to you of where you came from, where you are destined to go and who you are destined to be.
A Deeper Level of Life
In Hebrew, each letter of the alphabet has a gematria, a numerical equivalent. Whenever the letters of one word are numerically equivalent to the letters of a different word, it points to a secret relationship between the two.
It is fascinating to know that the Hebrew word for void, challal, is exactly numerically equivalent to the word chaim, which means life.
The message is simple. In being willing to embrace the vulnerability, to stop running away and instead stay present and expand your ability to see, you can begin to reconnect with what has been concealed from you, the part of you that is most truly and infinitely alive.
Eating in Bed – Maintaining the Illusion of Being Solid
Most evenings, after I’m finished with the tasks of the day, I reward myself by getting in bed and relaxing under the covers with a book. It feels secure and cozy, reassuringly solid and safe. And to further enhance the comforting feeling I almost always take a little bedtime snack with me. In fact, I sometimes take more than one.
I’ve been doing this for many years, and, as is the case with most deeply ingrained habits, I’ve become more than a little attached to it.
Recently I decided to give it up. I stopped eating in bed, and in doing so I discovered that my comforting habit had been covering up the sound of the void. The perceptions and sensations I began to experience were not necessarily comfortable. In fact, new, bigger things rarely are. But they were rewarding and profound.
As physical beings, we are primed to seek permanence and stability. But the bad news – the paradoxical news – is that physical things are inherently unstable and impermanent. Coming face to face with this fact can be scary. It can feel, indeed, like hovering over a dark and formless void. It’s important to remember that this darkness is really a much vaster and more brilliant form of light – one that’s simply too great for our senses to contain.
Many of us spend our lives attempting to block it out, to run from the darkness, or to create stability and solidity by clinging to things that are intrinsically unstable. This, however, does nothing to change the darkness, nor to expand our capacity to see. We remain trapped in a world of struggle and illusion. But if, instead, we train our eyes, bit by bit, to see the concealed light, to hear the subtle music, we can begin to set ourselves free – and to use this freedom to make a difference in our own lives and in the lives of those around us.
Do You Eat in Bed?
Whether you eat in bed or not, I am certain that there are things you do to block out the discomfort of the void. Maybe you eat or drink or work or sleep too much. Or maybe you take solace in having very strong opinions, in making yourself feel bigger and more solid by being right, criticizing, blaming or complaining. Maybe you try to lose yourself in a relationship, or maybe you avoid the vulnerability that an intimate relationship brings.
Whatever it is that you do – every now and then, just don’t. Instead, let yourself be open to something – anything – that challenges the way you’ve seen things till now. Going without that extra cookie, that glass of wine, or the need to prove your point might bring up feelings or perceptions that have something important to tell you. Giving up a protective habit is one of the most powerful ways to expand your capacity to see and hear what the habit is covering up. So listen and learn – or better yet, do something that reflects a new, higher way of being.
Maybe you can let yourself be vulnerable to someone else where you’d normally be defensive, to really listen rather than defend. Or maybe you can take an hour away from work to sit with your children and smile into their eyes, without having to accomplish anything at all. Learn some Torah, give some charity, or take a few minutes to open your heart to your Creator. These things bring more Divine light into the darkness and expand your ability to experience that light in your everyday life.
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15 Sep
Many business coaches deny the power of suggestion while using it. For instance a corporate inner circle will be told that they have inner conflicts with ethical practice due to the stockholders coming first, the customers coming second and employees coming third. They will tell the corporate management team that often what must be done short term to appease shareholders may not be good long term for employee units or quality of products to the end user. Yet this is linear thinking for some one who plays at a higher level in western culture and corporate America. Our goals is win/win/win. And if you will read Jim Collins book “Built to Last” you will see my point here.
These business coaches are without thinking placing doubt in the minds of corporate leaders like a cancer thru the power of suggestion that they have inter-emotional conflict with their belief systems, ethical standards and long and short term goals. Any true executive can play chess at a higher level and solve all the issues just fine. So in essence many corporate coaches in their professions are self-serving. Because when they make such statements that indeed create a perception that commerce is evil and there will be inner conflict in the minds of those corporate executives. This is similar to the lawyers lobbying the government for more regulations, then writing articles and alerting businesses that they need to fear the new legislation and that the same Lawyer is now here to help you. Of course these corporate coaches are not that bad are they? Well Sarbaines Oxley now takes up two-thirds of the time in America’s corporate boardrooms now. How much time do corporate board members spend in trying to butter up their psyche?
I do not see ethical conflicts in corporations because they are a necessary tool to deliver services, products and choice efficiently to market so that is a blessing to the whole of civilization. Everything you see, everywhere you go; was created by an entrepreneur or corporation. Without those things, computers, cars, buildings, fuel, phone lines, power, etc. you would also be unable to serve your life’s mission in any capacity; your life experience would be reduced to rubble and dirt floors. If someone cannot handle this and are a corporate executive then they are weak, they should not be out providing or producing anything, we would not want them in my companies.
Where as I can appreciate these corporate coach guru’s thoughts and perspectives; I wonder are they in fact being too linear in some of their concepts? Sure there are times when it takes a real pragmatic mindset to make decisions in a business, politics, war, sporting events, competition, etc. Many times those choices must be made fast and once made lived with. Sure such decisions run the gamut of ethical debate, ends and means or short and long term. However a thinking-human can make such decisions in a non-linear fashion to solve problems without remorse, guilt or psychological issues. Corporations are not for people who are weak and come with inner conflict baggage. Not everyone is equal and indeed, some should not be in corporations if they cannot handle it.
Such debates on ethics would be more well served in my opinion spent on the masses who might lie to you to save two-dollars. 35% of Americans are unethical. Perhaps we might turn some of these corporate coaches onto the government arena where conflict of right and wrong are a daily occurrence and abuses of power and linear thought are the norm. There is little ethical issue in today’s modern corporations only a mass media incited hysteria that there is. A fraud against truth, which originates with lawyers and regulatory PR trying to convince society that we need protection against the big bad corporations, who have done nothing wrong. In fact without these corporations who deliver to the masses their infinite desires and appetite for more the average citizen, consumer and TV watcher would be residing on a dirt floor with pigs and chickens, whose children were playing with sticks and rocks minus the TV? You think I am mistaken, then get off your ass and travel to the third world and stop telling the masses that corporations and business people are crooks.
And as for the corporate coaches in the world, stop feeding feelings of inferiority to corporate executives we are all a bunch of weak-minded and unethically challenged individuals. Not all of us buy all that malarkey you are dishing out hook, line and sinker. We hire you people who call themselves coaches to help underling under achievers, which we must promote due to diversity laws to levels, which are beyond their mental brain capacity. The same laws which impede the strength and integrity of the team causing lawsuits which hamper our progress and we have to pass onto the consumer and masses which started all this sound and fury in the first place. So, dear corporate coach, take all your foo foo Starbucks gift cards and shove them up your rears, if you want to give us advice on how to run things and deliver to the masses that which they desire for a unit of trade called a dollar, then lets compare back accounts first. Until then please stop brain washing our executives into thinking that they cannot cope and their only answer is your corporate coaching seminars, tapes and paraphernalia. The world’s corporations have a job to do and must be strong, there is a world to feed out there and the action is 24/7 and the games never stops. If you want to really do your job as corporate coaches team strength not weakness and feelings. Corporate Coach line: “Oh, I empathize with you, how does that make you feel today?” From a real executive: “Well, Mr. Corporate Coach; it makes me feel like I want to shoot you, get the F-out of this office. Now then how does that make you feel, you morons.” And to that point would someone mind telling me why every PhD Corporate psychologist has some asinine corporate book to read; that is no way to win friends and influence people. Weakness does not work when there is serious work to be done. Think about it.
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