In my desperate plea for the higher perspective on getting older as I faced my 45th birthday, naturally the first place I went for answers was to my notepad as I did a writing to God.

Here below was my question along the surprising answers I received that completely transformed how I now view chronologically aging.

This writing is dated Saturday December 16, 2006 3:45 PM EST

“Dearest God, Please guide me concerning the vain issue of my negative views and emotions as I chronologically age. Please guide me on all levels with anything and everything I need to know, understand, awaken to and do for my highest good and the highest good of all!
Thank you Dearest God for Divine, Pure and Perfect Truth in Advance, Love, Barbara.”

THE ANSWERS

“Okay my child, with respect to your ageing – this is the beauty of life.
Youth carried into your later years from your heart, combined with wisdom, purpose, and consistently creating the life you love, moment by moment, is the hallmark of “young adulthood.”

This means that you carry forward with all of your youthful and playful, fun, creating and imaginative qualities, combine them with wisdom, making a difference, and feeling yourself bloom from the inside out – is truly akin to the finest wine, that becomes richer, from the inside out as “time” passes by.

Please take the number off of your label of yourself. Whether it is 25, 45, 55, 75 or 95 – all that matters are your experiences that you bring forth from your heart – and this message is for anyone who is frazzled about “getting older.”

You would never turn the clock back, and you are not on a clock! You are living with a series of moment by moment experiences that bring far more good and joy into your life as well as others that matters so much more than a number.

Please remember that experiences are what constitute your life: The experiences you choose to create come from your heart. The energy in your heart is eternally fueled with youth, creativity, passion, childlike wonder and excitement as you bloom and help others to bloom on all levels.

This is far greater than placing any sort of limitations on who you are based on anything that does not exist within your heart.

Supposed your society lived without clocks, as it is in the spiritual realm, “time” does not exist – all is eternally now.

Suppose you viewed each moment of your life as a chance to create the most life enhancing, pure and positive experiences, and “time” did not exist. This would mean that you are eternally blooming without a number or any outer criteria that hinders your pure soul validation.

All of you are pure souls. View the concept of “aging” as soul experiences that are eternal. Then you will be living, and all of the worry about “getting older” will be replaced with experiencing every facet of your essence while you fuel tremendous joy creating moment by moment all you came into this life to experience and express.”

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Critics play a major role in shaping our lives. Critics are very-2 important for producing a constructive and great work. If there is no one who criticizes our work then we will never be able to know the short comings of our work. Many big leaders have given the credit of their success to their critics. More sharp and focus critic you have more will be better your work. Nobody comes in world with all the wisdom required to succeed. Most of the knowledge is learned by us in this world. This is also the beauty of some ones work if he is able to attract few critics.

Critics are very wise people and they usually do not waste their time with ordinary people. There are different ways to take criticism of your critics. We are required to give due respect to their criticism. We are required to first analyze how solid is their criticism and what is the truth behind it. If the criticism are really having some meaning then we should give due regard to it and try to improve yourself according to it. There are also many criticisms which have origin due to the frustrations of others. We should be very-2 careful about these criticisms.

These criticisms basically come from people who are unsuccessful in their lives and now they do not want to see you becoming successful. However if they something right then we should accept it. Due to ignorance we do lot of mistakes and therefore attract criticism out of it. We are requiring taking these criticisms positively and using them for not repeating the same mistakes. Biggest crime is to repeat the same mistakes again and again. Criticisms make us wise and also help us in reducing the chances of committing mistakes. So, always take your critics seriously.

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“I was up too late with my friend Peg last night,” Abigail told me in our phone session. “She was needing to vent. Then I had a problem falling asleep, but at least I was there for her.”

“How often does this happen?” I asked her.

“Oh, fairly often. At least every couple of weeks.”

“Why do you continue to listen to her?”

“Isn’t that what a good friend does?”

“How do you feel when you listen to her?”

“Kind of stressed.”

“Do you see it helping her to vent to you over and over?’

“Well, she says she feels better after I listen to her.”

“Of course she feels better! She has just dumped all her stress onto you. She goes to sleep and you are up with her stress. But do you see anything actually changing in her life as a result of you allowing her to vent to you?”

“No!”

“Abigail, if what Peg wanted to do every couple of weeks was come over and get drunk at your house, would you allow this?”

“No! But that’s different.”

“It’s not different. Peg is using venting as an addiction to avoid taking responsibility for her feelings. She is not spending the time with you exploring what she is doing that is creating her upsets. She is not learning about what she can do differently so that she doesn’t reach the point of anger and anxiety that she then dumps on you. There is no learning or change happening. And, your stress in response to the venting, is letting you know that listening to this is not good for you either.”

“I have had a feeling that this was not working well for me, but I don’t know what to do. Peg is my good friend and I don’t want to let her down. What can I say to her?”

“Well, how about, ‘Peg, I know that when you vent and I listen to you, you feel better for awhile. But I end up feeling worse. I love you and I want to be here for you, but it seems to me that the venting is not getting you anywhere – that is it an addiction just like using sugar to feel better for the moment but not really dealing with the issue. I’m here for you if you want real help in dealing with the issues, but I don’t want to be at the other end of your venting any more.’ Is that something you would be willing to say?”

“I think so. But she might be mad at me.”

“Yes, she probably will be mad at you. Most people do not like it when someone calls them on their addictions and refuses to participate in them anymore. Are you willing to have her mad at you? Certainly listening to her vent is not loving to yourself, and therefore not loving to her. It is far more loving to both of you for you to stop enabling her addiction, even if she doesn’t think so.”

“I know this is what I need to do. But what if she doesn’t want to be friends with me anymore?”

“Abigail, what would this tell you about the friendship and about her caring for you?”

“I guess it would tell me that she is using me rather than really caring about me and our friendship.”

“Right. If she pulls out of the friendship because you don’t want to listen to her vent, then she is not really a friend. It means that she want to go on being a victim, not taking responsibility for herself and dumping her feelings onto you.”

“Okay, I’m going to do this. I am at the point where I want friends who are learning and growing, not friends who are being victims. I guess I have nothing to lose, and I will get more sleep!”

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There is a Higher Intelligence that created the universe billions and billions of years ago.
We now call that Intelligence the Great Spirit. How and where that Great Spirit came from
will be debated by mankind until the end of time.

From the nothing came something. As the Kabbalah says, from the Ayin came the Ayin Sof.
Balance was also created to keep the universe in perfect order. We now call this balance yin
and yang.

Over eons, life was created. On this planet, life is carbon based. In other worlds, this probably
does not hold true. People can debate whether there is life on other planets, but that is not
what I am writing about. Balance is the key word. In order for things to go smoothly, balance
must be maintained. Unfortunately, this is not the case on Earth.

The bible tells us that Lucifer was kicked out of Heaven for loving himself more than the Great Spirit.
I do not believe this is quite accurate. I think Lucifer felt he was just as powerful as the Great Spirit.
When he left Heaven, he took followers with him. They are his dominions.

Lucifer is not a ‘nice’ spirit. He may appear friendly, but there is still the hiss behind his words. He is the embodiment of pure evil. I know Lucifer walks this planet today. Lucifer does not walk around with horns sticking out of his head.

The church created the idea of the Devil with horns. Pagans use to pray to the god of the hunt so they would be able to feed their families. The god of the hunt was pictured as a man with antlers. Since missionaries could not allow two gods, the god of the hunt became a picture of the evil one.

I keep saying we have a choice. We can either do what we know should be done, or we can indulge our dark side. If some people choose the dark side, for wealth, or greed, or wrath, or any of the rest of the Seven Sins, they will face the penalty of doing such.

Lucifer does not cause people to be evil. That is their free choice. There is a ‘battle’ if you will. This battle is for souls and it is being waged today. Lucifer’s (or Satan’s) dominions are spread all over this planet, causing war, strife, genocide, etc. These dominions want to ‘score points’ with their master.

The more souls they turn away from the Light, the more points are scored. When a person deliberately chooses to go against the Laws, and indulges in the Seven Sins, they are literally selling their souls to Lucifer. Lucifer can grant a person’s hearts desire, but at what price? Is this a price someone should be willing to pay?

The Prophet has returned, along with the other Six Essences. I know the Seven Essences are here, today, on this planet. They came to help mankind. They are the Seven Heavenly Virtues. Just as
they are here, so are the seven Deadly Sins walking this earth in human form.

Understand this clearly. Each and everyone of us has a choice to make. As I have previously stated, there are no more excuses. I was a victim, don’t blame me, it was not my fault, is pure garbage. We are responsible for our actions. We cannot shift the blame to another. We Chose to come back to this planet. We Knew what hardships we would be facing. We all instinctively know the Laws we should be following.

Time is approaching when this choice must be made. Paying lip service and saying I believe in the Laws, but in one’s heart the seven sins still dwell, will not work. The Higher Powers can and do read
the heart’s of mankind.

The reader can either believe me, or not – it is their free choice. This can be read as a prophesy,
a warning, or my rambling. Whatever choice the readers make, will not affect my future, but it will affect theirs.

Either start following the Laws, or face Judgement when the time comes.

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